"I'D KILL FOR A DAD"

This was said by a 14 year old boy who had lost his dad. Such a comment shows that boys do have feelings and Dads are important to them. It also shows that society has lost the plot when it comes to parenting.

We are told that any combination will do as long as the child is loved. So if two men want to adopt a boy, so what? They love him so that is all that matters.

If two women want to adopt or bear a child, so what? As long as they are loved it doesn’t matter that they have two mums, not a mum and a dad.

If the parents are divorced, so what? A single parent can do just a good a job as a man and a woman.

If an unmarried teenage girl wants to have a baby, so what?

Too many of the unelected social engineers tend to brush aside the obvious and trot out their mantra, which is usually lies but if they say it enough times, it become the truth.

Are you going to tell me that a Dad is only important to one boy that doesn’t have one? Logic will tell you that for every boy who speaks from the heart there are 10 more who thinks the same.

I am told that in the USA only 1 in 10 black families have a resident father. If God intended a child to have a mum and dad, why do hardline left wing cultural warriors insist that a dad is not necessary?

I have a very strong suspicion that as most of them are atheists, they will sanction anything that cuts across God’s order for society. The family is the finest expression of the nature and character of God. Loving, caring, sacrificing, providing, nurturing. At all costs to get God out of the way, what better than to destroy the family as he ordained it?

Ignore these self appointed social gurus that are leading society down the road of cultural degeneration. Let the evidence speak for itself. Who are the happiest children in most cases? Those with a mum and dad who are married to each other and live as a family unit and I speak here as a teacher who has seen all computations of family formations.

Dads are important because they socialise their children, especially boys and give them a sense of identity and belonging. They are role models to their children especially boys. A well adjusted boy is one who has a father that is involved in his life and upbringing.

Unlike the homosexuals, who treat children as another handbag that they can add to their collection or a trophy that they can display and who primarily want children to make them happy, the God given family is one of give and take, love and affection, nurture and discipline that makes the child very secure.

Children have an inbuilt need and desire for a mum and dad. To deliberately and legally deny them this as governments are now doing, is nothing short of legalised child abuse. Politicians who pass such laws should be brought before the courts and charged accordingly.